How do we divide land between our two children who don't get along?

We have 120 acres and were wondering what’s the best way to deal with the land given the fact that there is not a good relationship between our two children, which greatly saddens us

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Dear Karen,

We are a couple in our 70s and we want to give the farmland to our two children now rather than leave it in our wills, but the difficulty, unfortunately, is our son and daughter do not get along and have not done so for many years. They barely talk. We don’t farm anymore — we have the land rented out to a farmer tenant. We have 120 acres and were wondering what’s the best way to deal with the land given the fact that there is not a good relationship between our two children, which greatly saddens us. Hopefully, someday they will make it up. We’d like to be practical on how we deal with the land.

Dear Readers,

I am sorry to hear this. It is always difficult when family members do not see eye to eye, especially your only two children. When someone owns land with another person or many individuals own it together it can lead to disagreement about what should be done with it, how it should be sold, at what price, or when one person should buy out the other. This is typical when there are multiple owners.

There are a number of options available to you — the most obvious option would be to physically subdivide the land if that is possible, depending on the land, between your two children so that effectively each would own a portion in their own name. There are no hard and fast rules in relation to this type of situation.

It may not be possible to divide land between your two children with an equal value but it might be the best solution to the situation you are in so that each of your children own the lands exclusively and can do with it as they wish for example rent it, sell it, gift it to a child etc.

An engineer would need to be appointed to mark Land Registry-compliant maps together with any appropriate rights of way or rights to water or drainage that may be required for the benefit of relevant land over the other portion of the land.

Given the relationship and the history between your two children, it might be best, if possible, to have independent access to each portion of the land so that either of them do not have to transverse over the other person’s land.

Obviously, there is another option available in that you could place the land on the market for sale or direct in your will that the land be sold and the proceeds divided between them equally. This may not be what you would like to happen as in you might wish to keep the land in the family but it is an option that you should consider where neither child is interested in farming. Your children could each take their one-half share in the sales proceeds from the sale of the land and do with it as they wish.

You also have the option of placing the land in their names as tenants in common in equal shares but the difficulty is, it does not confirm exclusive right in respect of any part of the co-owned land on them. The difficulty of holding lands in tenants in common is that both of your children would need to agree on what to do with the land ie, rent it, sell it, farm it, etc.

If they disagree, one co-owner can effect a partition or court sale through an application to the court without the need for the consent or agreement from the other co-owner. This allows at least one of the individual owners to petition the court to divide the property and force a sale.

This process is time-consuming and expensive. In many cases, however, family is unable to agree or communicate in any fashion that would allow the matter to proceed uncontested and therefore the partition proceeding is necessary in order to force the sale on behalf of the uncooperative or disagreeable owner.

However, vesting the land in your children as tenants in common does not appear to be a sensible solution in your particular circumstances.

Ideally, it is best if all parties could agree on what to do with the land but more often than not, the more people who have an interest in particular lands, the more scope there is for disagreement.

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